Wow… it’s been 6 months. How the time is flying!
Time… now there’s an old nemesis. “Never enough time” to get everything done on
my list. I thought it was me. If only I could get caught up… But I’ve come to realize that there is never
enough time when you combine perfectionism with procrastination. It’s a recipe for misery.
Over these last six months
I’ve learned to put away the ‘tyranny of the urgent’ by getting things done
before the last minute (tho I’m still working on that one! LOL) and by working towards “TANE” in my
house keeping.
What is TANE?
Tidy And Non-Embarrassing!
I don’t live in a magazine
spread. You know… I’ve read blogs were
magazines have come in to photograph the bloggers home. The photo shoot people erase all signs that
someone actually lives there in the search for “perfection”.
What an “Aha” moment! Perfection is lifeless. A ‘perfect home’ is a house that doesn’t look
lived in. There are no children’s
drawings on the fridge. No doggie nose
smudges on the window. No laundry in a
hamper. No crumbs from a yummy dessert
on the counter.
Perfect. Sterile.
Lonely.
What a difference it has made
in my stress level to embrace TANE. My
house is my HOME. And I like it this
way.
I mentioned last time that I
was truly realizing the blessing my family is.
This took me down the path to evaluating those relationships that are
NOT family. Acquaintances… pals …
friends… I have come to realize that
far too many are not a blessings in my life.
That got me to thinking about those we socialize with. You know, it takes time to get a house
cleaned up “company ready” and it takes a decent chunk of change to put
together a good meal. Then there is the
time spent with the visit. All in all,
it is truly an investment into a part of a person’s life.
So why are we spending an
evening looking at the top of people’s heads and listening to infrequent
mumbles? Seriously, we had a couple out
and over a 2 hour visit their phones rang/chimed/beeped in excess of 30
times! What kind of visit is that? Whether we were being the hosts or being the
company – if there is not going to be visiting and eye contact, I have a whole lot
of other things I can do elsewhere!
So we have started
cultivating new friendships. We have
been out several times with these new people and have never looked at the top
of someone’s head. We talked and laughed
and shared. It is exciting.
My creativity projects
continue and I’m having a blast trying out all sorts of methods... paper art,
collage, assemblage, painting & drawing, and so on. It is fun, frustrating, exhilarating, and
even sometimes depressing. But what
surprises me is how it has affected other areas of my life. The more I ‘create’, the more I find myself
thinking clearer, sharper, faster. I
feel less stressed. It’s really pretty
cool.
My culinary endeavors are
coming along well enough. I’m trying a
new recipe pretty much weekly and I’m working on increasing that to three times
a week.
A large part of my creative
has been working towards setting up my studio downstairs. I am so excited at how quickly it is coming
together. By the middle of next month I
expect to have it functionally finished – with the walls painted too. Then I will be able to work on refinishing
the furniture I have in there (new builds I put in will be completely done when
installed).
I haven’t taken many classes
these six months. Opportunity (classes
not being held) and time (being gone) have interrupted that. I’m planning on working harder to find some I
want to take part in.
All in all, I’m quite happy
with my halfway point of my Fabulous 50th. There are a few things I have to work on in
this last half… but it’s been good.
This is so exciting Teri!
ReplyDeleteI love the sound of new friendships and creativity.
Have a great week.
Sft x